The First Encounter Story
Meeting new people can occur in person, but it is increasingly common to do so online, particularly if you work remotely or own a small business. A first impression is important; online, this means sharing your story. Without a story, the relationship may lack depth.
It has been 25 years since I sought storytelling advice to improve my writing skills. I created a PowerPoint presentation for my team involved in online business. After approximately 50 individuals shared their stories, we organized meetings to discuss future business opportunities online with newcomers. We utilized an audio system for guest callers to share their experiences with about 75 attendees.
Times have changed, and the need for effective storytelling continues. My life includes numerous events that could be part of my narrative, and I strive to enhance my storytelling abilities while managing dyslexia and HFA.
Recently, I listened to a woman’s first encounter story aimed at establishing a connection, potentially leading to business engagements. Despite the story’s lengthy buildup, its climax was underwhelming. However, the woman achieved significant success shortly after sharing her story.
Reflecting on this, I realized the value of presenting a manageable hardship in a story. Extreme details can evoke negative emotions, whereas generalizing hardships can provide a lighter narrative. Positive details, such as vacations or new accomplishments, can create favorable feelings.
Once, during a conversation with a fellow cancer survivor in a cafe, our discussion upset a nearby diner. As Canadians, we politely changed the subject. This experience highlighted the importance of considering audience reactions when sharing personal stories.
Introducing oneself involves a structured story pattern: living a normal life, encountering a challenging event, overcoming adversity with new information provided by a new acquaintance, and achieving success based on this information. Avoiding detailed blame and responsibility keeps the narrative engaging.
When meeting new people online, focus on the key change in your story: receiving valuable new information from someone willing to help. This approach shows resilience and the ability to adapt.
To summarize: You are a productive individual who encounters difficulties. Someone new provides crucial information, helping you take risks and succeed. This comeback narrative resonates well.
Stories such as David and Goliath or Cinderella are popular but not suitable for initial encounters. Leave out complex details and focus on the essential elements.
In the past, as an advertising executive, I learned the importance of trust in cold calls. Establishing trust leads to subsequent meetings and potential business engagements. Consistent performance builds trust over time.
While my true story remains extensive and private, I simplify it for initial encounters. Advocates like Maria played pivotal roles in providing essential support.
Advocacy is now a central concept in my life. ICO (InCareOf.com) aims to connect people and advocate for those in need through structured systems. Despite challenges, I remain dedicated to building networks and encouraging contributions to ICO.
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